Self confidence STARTS with Self Knowledge and when does Self Knowledge start? It begins when you ask yourself, “Who am I?” You don’t have to provide an answer right away, but you do have to answer the question. Let’s see, start with your name. you may add your gender then give an important aspect you have of yourself, such as: “I am beautiful and start. You may also go on to add your outward traits, such as something you love to do. I love to work with teens & young adults. Beneath all of these surface traits, you need to love who YOU are!